Probably
you do
have
attitude,
but what
is it?
Jaded,
self-protective?
Frightened?
Is
"scared
to
death"
too
strong?
What you
want, a
plan to
get
there,
and an
attitude
to match
is vital
for
partnering
success.
Think
about
it: if
you are
sure
that
what you
are
doing
won't
work,
chances
are very
good
that you
will be
right.
It’s
like
planning
a trip
to where
you
really
don't
want to
go, but
it is
the only
route
you
know.
Who
wants to
spend
their
vacation
in the
city
dump?
That’s
just
what you
are
deciding
to do if
you are
saying
things
to
yourself
like
"There
are no
good
men out
there,"
or
"Women
are just
looking
for a
fat
wallet,"
or "It’s
not
going to
work, so
why
try?"
You can
be sure
with
those
kinds of
attitudes,
you
won't
find any
good
men, or
will
just
find
gold-digging
women,
or you
won't
get
anywhere
at all.
Do you
know
how,
when you
suddenly
become
interested
in
something,
you
start
noticing
it
everywhere?
A few
months
ago, I
got a
sudden
inspiration
that I
wanted a
white
convertible,
right
out of
the
blue.
And then
I
started
noticing
convertibles.
Never
knew
that
there
were so
many of
them
around,
but then
again, I
hadn't
been
looking
before.
It’s the
same way
with
those PT
Cruisers
-- I
think
they are
as cute
as a
button,
and I
notice
them. I
do not
notice
Cadillac’s
or
Chevrolets
or
BMW’s.
That’s
the way
it works
with
attitude
and
dating.
You get
a
"destination"
in your
mind,
where
you are
heading,
and
then,
both
consciously
and
unconsciously,
you
notice
things
and make
choices
that get
you
there.
So it is
very
important,
if you
want
success,
to have
success
as your
destination.
I am
convinced,
that for
everyone
who
wants
one,
there is
a
perfect
mate Out
There.
And, if
you are
looking,
it is
crucial
for you
to
believe
that
too.
The
question
is where
this
person
is,
finding
him or
her, and
how long
it will
take.
Those
are the
real
questions.
So can
you
believe?
Can you
adopt an
attitude
of
bemused
curiosity?
Of
wondering
who your
sweetheart
will be
and when
and
where he
or she
will
manifest
themselves?
Of
readying
your
life to
accommodate
sharing
with
another?
Of
hopeful
expectancy?
Of an
opening
to
possibility
and an
acceptance
of what
is to
come?
Just try
an
Attitude
Adjustment
and see
what
happens.
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